Gemini here w/ Pisces moon and Libra ascendent. I was wondering if any of you feel extremely attracted to other water sign moons but also feel that they have the power to exploit your feelings (more so than other moon signs) because they are on such a similar level emotionally? With understanding comes the power to take advantage of a person's weaknesses. I love love Cancer moons as friends, but I feel as though I could never be romantically involved with one again because it seems like when two highly sensitive/moody people collide it ends in hurt feelings and a lack of clarity...and despite my Libra rising I'm as moody as they come being a water-influenced Gemini (thank god for my Venus in Taurus!) Can anyone relate to this good but sometimes destructive rapport with other water moons?
Secondly, I've been experiencing an ongoing flirtation with a Capricorn moon (Virgo Sun, Aries Ascendent) and I'm at a point where there is the possibility of it turning into something more. However, I'm terrifed because 1. strong feelings and being this into someone don't happen naturally or frequently for me, I'm pretty selective and somewhat aloof and 2. his chart basically spells out "cold critical asshole" haha well not right now....but the amount of virgo/earth in his chart is a bit startling. Has anyone had romantic experience with Cap moons? I feel very drawn to them (and earth in general) because they give me a feeling of safety/security, but have never been seriously involved with one.
Secondly, I've been experiencing an ongoing flirtation with a Capricorn moon (Virgo Sun, Aries Ascendent) and I'm at a point where there is the possibility of it turning into something more. However, I'm terrifed because 1. strong feelings and being this into someone don't happen naturally or frequently for me, I'm pretty selective and somewhat aloof and 2. his chart basically spells out "cold critical asshole" haha well not right now....but the amount of virgo/earth in his chart is a bit startling. Has anyone had romantic experience with Cap moons? I feel very drawn to them (and earth in general) because they give me a feeling of safety/security, but have never been seriously involved with one.
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Re: Pisces moon & relationships
Tue, August 22, 2006 - 9:31 PMHi Sophia,
I don't seem to have the trouble with water signs. I have Aries sun/Scorpio moon/Leo rising but I have Venus in Pisces. I find relationships with other water signs, be it sum or moon to be wonderful. I feel I learn quite a lot from other water signs. I don't feel taken advantage of for my weeknesses, but I can see what you mean about how this could happen. I don't think the hurt feelings lack clarity, if I'm hurt by anyone at all, it just makes me realize I've trusted the wrong person, and had allowed my heart to rule my head. That's a typical Pisces trait. At least I think it is with VIP, anyhow. People with strong Pisces influence are usually all heart. Very generous, loving people. I love the intuition I get from both my VIP and my Scorpio moon. -
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Sat, August 26, 2006 - 6:29 PMI do not think that water sign exploit each other's sensitivity as much as run into each other's sensitivity.
I am the owner of a sensitive Pisces moon that les at the fundation of my personnality, beneath the fire bravado and all the intellectual analysing.
I find I get in an easy rapport with other watery moon because we share the same feeling foundation. However, watery moons have to get out of each other's way and give each other space to process emotions since we are all water emotion based.
I would say the Cancer moon would get many ups and downs and our Pisces sensitivity needs to learn how to stay out of the way. With another Pisces moon, there could be too much empathy such as catching each other's mood so too much of a good thing.
As for the Scorpio moon there is a thread a few posting down on this tribe by a person successfully married to a Scorpio moon that explains it very well.
Strangely, my best relationship has also been with a Capricorn moon and provided there are factors that tone down the possible harshness, they are very steady and respond well to our moon as we humanise them and allow them to unfold their secret fears and vulnerability. My moon is in the house of Capricorn.
But I still like the other watery moon as I feel ther is instant rapport.
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Re: Pisces moon & relationships
Tue, September 5, 2006 - 4:26 PMWell since you mentioned it, I have strong attractions for Geminis but they always jerk the rug out from under me eventually so I have sworn off. -
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Tue, September 5, 2006 - 7:52 PMsophia, I am a gemini with a pisces moon and leo rising . I just ended a relationship with a leo with a pisces moon. Man, he is the only partner I have ever had that could read me like an open book every single moment of the day. We had a powerful love for eachother when he was sober ... But he definitely took advantage of my sensitivity and unleashed his own and his moods on me cause he knew I would be there the next day. Until recently when I had enough. Anyways, that is that.
And I think that Cap moon is real compatible with pisces moon. Very. But depending on the rest of his chart and yours, you might find him too rigid in his way of dealing with emotions... look at his mars and venus too...Good luck. Follow your pisces moon intuition, don't block it. -
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Fri, December 8, 2006 - 11:38 PMSophia..youve got the same postions as my guy..who ive been with for about almost.. a year and a half..
Im a gemini sun with a capricorn moon and honestly,everyone knows us as the most peacful,easing-going couple till now..Over time i began to realise that despite his softness and patience(Libra rising,venus in taurus)hes got a very highsprung emotional nature..there times when he can be downright moody and he goes,"I need to be in my lonliness,try to understand"..One thing i appreciate though,hes put alot of trust in me,they have never been times when he goes,"Tell me where your going!I don't want you doing that!Don't talk to him" etc ..like most other guys do nowadays in my society.Everyones knows my guy as,"You should cherish him,he isnt one of those other assholes"..who dumped my friends,played on people I know and all.When things didnt work out and i had bad tempers(possessives and basically,immaturity) there wasnt even once when he lost it.We've grown up,we've change and everything but he has always been able to talk to me abt anything,trust me with anything,and there many times when he goes,"you really do cover my weaknesses" cause he has a sensitivity i dont see in other guys and he doesnt try to hide it..but they are times when he does feel like I dont love him n I dont bother talking to him and all..which is the problem with most cap moons..they are times we both tend to be moody,depressed,missunderstood at the same time..and we both can give pretty harsh tones to eachother but things work out easily because its easy to compromise and make things work with a person like him.You'd do really well with a capricorn moon as long as you can deal with a few difficulties and show some patience.Just try to help them open up their shy sides and make them feel secure,if not very affectionate,they'll make sound,loyal and reliable partners.Ive shown him alot of sincerity,even when im joking around i stay in my limits,he does the same because he knows my -taking things seriously side..lol..just thought of letting you know my experience -
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Re: Pisces moon & relationships
Fri, February 15, 2008 - 8:35 PMWow, interesting.
I've been seeing someone with Capricorn Moon and it's been one of the hardest times I've had emotionally connecting.
I was basically told by this person that when they see a lover getting emotional about anything it kills the fire for them. They also said they basically hate emotions all together and really hate talking about emotions.
It's to the point where if I show any emotion about anything he doesn't even want to get physical with me, especially if I want/need to talk about it. I am really confused about all of this and I can't help but feel hurt by not being able to express my more sensitive Piscean Moon.
I've been trying really hard to keep my emotional nature balanced but it's starting to bring me down. I mean, it seams so unreasonable and unrealistic to expect people to *never* have emotions about anything!
I do see occasional moments of affection from this person but I've never been in a situation where I've felt so 'punished' (by being pushed away) for being emotional about anything! I feel like there is this expectation to just be emotionally dead. I have always felt that being emotionally dead is basically, well, being dead!
It's hard as I really like this person, I like Capricorn energy in general because it is grounding, but security and stability is definetly something I have not experienced with this sign in the moon or the Sun for that matter (the Cap suns flake on me a lot).
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Re: Pisces moon & relationships
Sat, February 16, 2008 - 2:53 PMHmm...I've found that I'm more attracted to water sun signs. Whatever their moons are, typically they're not around long enough for me to find out with any stealth.
I've never felt like they purposely manipulated me emotionally, though. I've found more often than not, they're totally unaware of their manipulation tactics. To them, it was always just their reaction instead of calculated risk based on my emotional aspects and the payoff.
But, my small advice would be to try to let go of that fear of someone based on their sign. You will learn how all of their aspects work together, it's just not something you can necessarily get right ahead of time. Trust in your intuition. As a Pisces moon, you probably have a good one. -
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Sat, February 16, 2008 - 3:00 PMFunny enough, his Sun is in Pisces! (so is mine...oi...)
Interestingly enough, I don't have much luck with water sun signs but I have had a lot of luck dating people who's sun are imcompatable with mine BUT they have a water moon.
This has also been one of those situations where I don't feel like this person fits their chart so well so yes, I have to let go of it anyway! Imagine a Pisces with Mercury in Pisces who 'doesn't have any emotions' ? wha? -
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Thu, February 21, 2008 - 5:08 AMWow, Sophia, I am also pisces moon, gemini sun, venus in taurus. Not so easy in relationships... I dated a pisces moon, first person to ever read through me like I was transparent... which eventually got him to be the person who judged me the most...
Dated cancer sun people, never again, never on the same page emotionally cause when I was ok, they weren't (emotionally) and vice-versa.
I dated pisces sun people... that was great!!! But they thought I was a bit intense for them (my gemini sun I guess).
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Mon, March 3, 2008 - 4:54 PMSometimes my sensativity can get in the way. I can get a bit emotional if a partner doesn't understand my emotions. Like when I was with this Cappy with a Scorpio moon we had intense feelings for eachother but whenever I wanted to talk to him about how I was feeling he would change the subject and ignore it and whenever I told him he could be open and honest with me and he could tell me anything in the world I would listen, he refused to tell me anything going on in the inside.
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Fri, April 25, 2008 - 1:04 PMI have Pisces moon....unfortunately...I usually get involved with fire signs. The latest was a Taurus..very nice! ( Im a Cancerian) BUT...moon in Gemini...not really my "thing". Taurus/Gemini = unfaithful for SURE. I wish I could answer your question...I would love to have someone read me like a book....that is..if they were good-hearted..honorable intentions. -
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Re: Pisces moon & relationships
Mon, April 28, 2008 - 5:55 PMi came to a hair,s breath of marrying a Capricorn Moon (Sagg sun, Uranus opposition).
Capricorn moons are really tough and this one, though a really great guy, exhibited bouts of cold cruelty at odd times.
A Virgo moon or Virgo sun would be a better complement and match.
Do I get watery moons? All the time. Especially Scorpio Moon of every sign but especially the Cancer Sun combo. No idea why -(I am a solar Aries. I also get Cancer moon Aries (a few) and other Pisces moon.
Since our moon is our deepest self, it is probably normal to encounter other watery moon. weare probably soothing to one another. The key is not to act out at rhe same time.
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Thu, July 3, 2008 - 9:16 PMI'm a cuspian taurus/gemini and i'm not unfaithful at all.I won't even date anyone unless i feel a connection...a real connection.I am 26 and still a virgin.The latest person who likes me is a capricorn sun and i can't say i feel a thing when i talked to him the times i have..
So,That won't happen.If i can't feel anything, it's a no go.
i have sun, moon and mercury in gemini.
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Re: Pisces moon & relationships
Sat, July 5, 2008 - 5:33 PMI have 2 pisces moon people in my life now and I do have to agree that I have run into that "lack of clarity" problem you were describing...there is a feeling of empathy but often just weird confusion....(cap sun, scorp moon) I do much better with earth moons....2 work friends, and 2 of my best GF's all have Taurus Moons. In fact I do best with moon opposite moon it seems...:-)
